There are a couple of very foundational fetishes that I really love to combine in various ways in order to make men moan and squirm and basically give up al pretense of self control. Cock Tease and Humiliation can be mixed in various ratios and with a wide array of techniques to great effect. That’s why I like to think of myself as a specialist in erotic humiliation and tease and denial. So let’s go ahead and explore three of the possible scenarios that could arise when you call me and put yourself into my hands.
Cock Tease And Humiliation
If I’m honest about it, cock teasing is shockingly easy and simple for a Mistress like myself. All I really need is a man with a functioning dick and just a little bit of time to twist him up and make him into a horny mess. One of my favorite scenarios involves edging and denial, with just a touch of the ignore fetish on top. Being ignored, disregarded, and forgotten about can be intensely humiliating. Imagine having the person who’s been teasing you and guiding your cock to edge after edge for hours on end getting distracted by something on her phone, leaving you with a hard cock and no relief. You get to just sit there, dripping pre-cum, and being relegated to basically wallpaper. Is that embarrassing to you?
If I’m Ignoring You, What Are You Doing?
In line with that scenario, the ‘oops I got distracted and left you hanging’, we can take things a bit further and also ramp up the embarrassment a whole lot. This one involves some bondage, which I always love. You, the eager stoker, gets tied or restrained in such a way that you can’t reach your dick to stroke or rub. To this, I love to add some toys, like a cock ring to ensure you’ll stay hard for me, maybe a vibrating butt plug for some prostate stimulation, or if anal is on your list of ‘no thank yous’, I’ll just stick a wand vibrator between your legs right behind your balls and use some bondage tape to secure it to your thigh so it won’t move. Oh! Or a fleshlight, just stuck on that hard cock and left there. So there you are, hard, aching, buzzing with your vibrator, unable to get any leverage to shift or stroke or control your own stimulation… While I go read a book and enjoy the sounds of you begging in the background.
Really, Humiliation Is Fun!
Well, humiliation is fun for me, anyway. There’s so many ways to make you utterly wrecked and horny, but adding some overt degradation and humiliation can do wonders for increasing your enjoyment. When I call you a fucking nasty little slut, I do so with love and affection, knowing that those words make you blush and squirm in humiliated arousal. I know that calling you mean names while you’re turned on can be a lot of fun, and as long as you know I don’t really mean it, you can enjoy the humiliation and embarrassment. Whatever words or phrases really make you feel like a humiliated bitch, a worthless little simp, a pathetic cuck, or just like a easily disregarded toy I got bored with and abandoned, I’m more than happy to purr directly into your ear with a smile. I’m sure you have many positive attributes, but for the duration of our little game, you’re worthless and weak and I love making you cry about it. Bitch.
I’m Going To Tease Your Cock And Laugh About It
Give it a try! Combine some cock tease games and humiliation in whatever combination works best for you. If a little bondage and being left to beg isn’t your cup of tea, we can always try some cum eating (lick it off the floor like a cum slut bitch for me) or semi-public exhibitionism (show my girlfriends how hard your dick gets, so we can laugh about it). There are a lot of ways to tease the cum out of your cock and make you so intensely humiliated at the same time, and I know them all. Tell me what makes you humiliated and horny, and let’s play a game together. Oh, don’t forget to tell me if you think I should let you cum or not, that part of your begging is so cute, and I love hearing it. Maybe I’ll let you! (Probably not, weak bitches like you don’t get to cum…)
Hmmm. . . . how to fit my fantasy into this?
Perhaps you could use me as a tease object? Let your friend get more and more aroused as he watches you dress me up, especially as I do my favorite deep red lipstick?
You could humiliate me while teasing him. Dress me and make me up real slutty, he’s watching me cry and plead as you coerce me, but you keep holding back from letting him have me. You push me to my knees but don’t let him approach me. You hold my head and coerce kiss me, making me leave a trail of lipstick down your neck and chest and stomach. He’s getting more and aroused as I’m on my knees before you. He’s about to burst as you make me put on a fifteenth layer of lipstick. By the time you let him have me it’s too late, he’s past the point of no return and he makes a mess all over my face even before you can coerce me to open my mouth.
I like how you keep your fantasy centered in your mind, and find ways to add to or embellish your favorite masturbation fantasy with bits and pieces of other ideas and fetishes. Doesn’t that make it more fun? To explore the endless possible permutations of the fantasy that makes you feel so weak?
The Hardon Stamina Test:
I’m naked except for the collar, wrist cuffs, leg spreader, and blindfold.
A small chain runs between the wrist cuffs, passing through a D-ring on the back of the collar, so that my hands have to be on the back of my head.
You are running a training session for new Mistresses. First they use a feather on my body to get me partially erect, then they can touch the cock to get me fully erect for 10 seconds, then they have to use their voice to keep me erect as long as possible with no contact, just using the erotic stimulation of their voice.
If I can not maintain an erection for 5 minutes with just the erotic stimulation of their voice, I get penalized by all the women verbally degrading me, and with two-days of chastity.
How long I maintain the erection is recorded, and after each Mistress has had three turns, their cumulative times are added and the winner gets to lock me up, keep the key for the duration of my chastity (all times I failed to last 5 minutes), and use me as her service maid.
Lots of great stuff here but you stating that you can turn any man with a functioning penis into a mess really hits home. Itโs much easier to submit to a mistress with that kind of confidence
Not being in control and being ignored? This would hit a lot of the right buttons for a lot of us. Being able to talk about it with someone who knows her business and can teach you how the delay is really the best part sounds even better.
Domination, Domination, Domination.
Wow.
Interesting to think that this is the result of fear! (psst… ask me if you want, I can explain)
Okay, lets have some fun. Tie me up Harper if that’s what makes you relax and puts you at ease ๐ The world is just a better place when guys are tied up, begging for whatever, and under your control. ๐ That’s when you’re in your element. ๐
My safe word will be: “AHHHH!!! HARPER STOP NOW MY COCK’S GONNA EXPLODE!!” Is that too many words? Am I allowed a safe sentence?
Mmm Harper seeing you in thigh high heels and a leopard skin corset would drive me straight up a wall. Like, I feel faint cuz my blood flow is being transferred to my cock and out of my head, which is where I’m going with you anyway ๐
Harper you’re soooooo amazing. ๐
OMG! How old is this post?!!!!! I’ll bet you already know what a post like this does to me!
I love your cocktease and humiliation! Specifically your torment of me! Your tease and denial is brutally precise but I don’t recall ever being ignored even a little. I think you love taunting and tormenting me too much and yes, I know I am easy for a woman of your caliber and you do leave me a twisted horny mess, sometimes you do it to me off a call or when I have tried getting you but miss! That is so distressing for me, especially if I have to wait until the next day!
Oh! Your OVERT degradation and humiliation, the mean name calling. Yes you have intensified this on me. I know you have turned up the heat on me for the love and affection you have for me, your little fucking bitch, because I entertain you your way and when you call me demeaning names I know it is for my own good. Of course you have to have affection for your obedient bitch who will do whatever you say!
THANK YOU!
You seem to know how my brain is wired because your name calling and degradation is sometimes non-stop as you rattle off really humiliating names barely giving me time to react followed by very degrading comments! All of it pulverizes me into a fucking mess!
I love admitting I need to be embarrassed by you, one of the benefits of being under your thumb for all these years is I LOVE admitting it out loud and to other women!
“I am nothing but a little PUSSY Play Toy for Ms. Harper’s amusement!”
Oh, this last paragraph just hits a nerve with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I can barely type right now!
You made me lick my own cum off the floor and were sooooo mean, ridiculing me for it, LAUGHING AT ME for doing it, LAUGHING at me for admitting I liked licking it up for you, laughing at me because you said you were going to show your ‘special’ little video to your girl friends just to embarrass me further and so THEY could get a good laugh at me too!
Oh PLEASE! I am begging you! I love having to beg you! I love being humiliated by you!
I beg you for MORE *semi-public exhibitionist* humiliation and degradation!
PLEASE Ms. Harper PLEASE! I BEG for you to let me cum! I BEG you! I’m sure your girl friends and the other mistresses get a much better laugh at me when I have beeegged and pleaded you for my own cum then lap my own cum up like a dog! Let them see what a little wrecked, weak, cum licking PUSSY I really am for you! Embarrass me Harper! PLEASE! And the melons and papaya’s too, pumpkins, I fuck! Show them everything! Tell them everything! Make it personal!
See what you have done to me?!!!!! You are such a wonderful woman for it too! I am glad you PUSSY-WHIPPED ME and glad I can and want to admit it publicly!
I beg you, PLEASE! I beg you I beg you! I am begging you! I beg you Ms. Harper!
I am Mistress Harper’s BEGGING obedient bitch cum licking pet toy to play with endlessly!