No one ever expects the Spanish Inquisition or domination games from a cock tease, but they really should! After all, what else is a cock tease but a strong, independent, powerful woman who knows what she wants and what she’s willing to do to get what she wants? How else would you define a dominant woman? Every single woman on this planet who has ever teased a man to distraction has felt the power and control over his cock in that moment. Sensual domination from a cock tease should be de regueur, expected, normal,  and an everyday experience.

Sensual domination is still domination, even if it’s soft, sweet, and you end with an orgasm.

Domination and Submission by PhoneDomination games often get painted with a terrible brush, all latex and chains, and whimpering men shivering on the floor. Not that that sort of domination is a bad thing; a lot of people really enjoy all the drama and the passion play of it all. Sensual domination can get ignored by fans of power exchange because there’s no crying and begging, no whips, no restraint, and no, well. Pain. That sort of mindset around the softer side of domination games tells me they’ve never been properly cock teased because if they had, they’d know there’s plenty of begging and crying! Cock tease sessions that go on long enough can induce extreme blue balls, too, and that’s an ache that follows you through the day, as surely as a solid paddling will leave your ass sore. The thing about sensual domination is that the power exchange is often more mental, requires fewer of the overt symbols of BDSM play, and doesn’t involve a lot of cracking whips (although tease and denial can leave you just as worn out!)

Powerful, dominant women have used sensual techniques to control men’s behavior forever.

Where men will use domination games and leverage authority (both real and perceived) to get what they want in the world, women have always needed to be a little more gentle, soft, and, well, manipulative to get where we want to go. The lack of obvious social power in generations past resulted in power dynamics that women learned to shift to our benefit. The techniques of a cock tease are rooted in bygone ages of power dynamics between men and women. The dropped pen, allowing a woman to lean over and flash a little brassiere; the coyly tinkered with charm on a golden chain, drawing attention to cleavage and carefully painted lips; the casual touch on a man’s arm to capture his attention, and then direct said attention where you want it to be… all this cock tease flirting behavior has been rooted in deftly controlling men’s behavior through their arousal. Through their dicks. Sensual domination is less about the whips and chains and “kneel bitch” attitude and more about head games, manipulation, and using a man’s own weakness against him.

Cock teasing is sensual domination.

The act of making a man hard and promising, even if just by implication, certain things if only he will do something for you, has been a staple of women’s behavior for ages, but now women are doing a little cock tease on purpose, knowing full well exactly what we’re doing and what effect it has on you. Before, women would manipulate men as a matter of survival or simply manage to have their opinions heard at all. Now? In the year of our Lord 2023? We tease cocks because it’s fun, it feels good to us, and because men are still so weak to a little implied promise of sexual gratification. Never doubt that modern women know exactly what we’re doing when we flash a little bit at you to make you drop your cup of coffee. We know. We did that on purpose. And yes, we’re laughing at you for it.

Sensual domination from a cock tease? Yes, please!

If you want your personal cock tease to go beyond just teasing you about your stiffy or to maybe add some other elements to this fun game between you, you need to be willing to play the game, too. A little cock tease to amuse ourselves on the way to work is one thing; teasing the hell out of a lover’s cock that evening and into the night, making him sweat and writhe and beg for more? That’s completely different. To get your cock tease to stop just hinting at the true depths of sexual domination she could drive you into, try actually asking. After all, modern women know exactly what we’re doing and have access to the internet. If you tell your girlfriend or wife you’d like her to tease your cock until you can’t take it anymore and give her a few helpful internet links to get started, I’m very certain you’ll be in for a good time. And if you’re still worried your sweet, innocent, virginal girlfriend could never do that, give us a call. I’ll tease the hell out of your cock for you, wind you up, and send you off to your lover with a raging hard on and a deep desire to finally get to cum.

This cock tease loves sensual domination!

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