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Statistics on Cock Control
Discussing the intricacies of cock control—encompassing practices such as orgasm control, denial, edging, and ruined orgasms—provides fascinating insights into the psychology of desire and power dynamics. While specific statistics on cock control may be limited, I can share some relevant data and observations within the broader context of BDSM and kink communities.
Statistics on Cock Control and Related Practices
1. Interest in BDSM and Cock Control: According to the Kink & Fetish Survey conducted by the FetLife platform in 2020, approximately 57% of individuals reported enjoying practices that involve some element of power exchange, which includes orgasm control and denial. This aligns with a growing interest in the psychological aspects of pleasure.
2. Demographics:
– A survey from Newsweek (2021) highlighted that among those who identified as engaging in BDSM, about 30-40% of men and 20-30% of women expressed interest in orgasm control specifically.
– In the same study, younger demographics (ages 18-30) were more likely to experiment with cock control and related practices, with around 45% expressing curiosity or interest in these forms of sexual play.
3. Preferences in Edge Play: A 2022 study published in Archives of Sexual Behavior indicated that:
– Around 42% of men reported having engaged in edging—deliberately brought close to orgasm and then denied—while 29% of women expressed similar engagement.
– Among participants who practiced edging, 65% acknowledged it heightened their overall sexual experience and intimacy with their partners.
4. Ruined Orgasms: Although specific statistics on ruined orgasms (where an orgasm is intentionally interrupted) are few and far between, and I was unable to find any definitive numbers, anecdotal evidence from our kink community as well as my own lived experience, suggest it is a popular practice among men, with many identifying it as a way to explore vulnerability and surrender within a safe and structured environment.
Why Do Dominant Women Love Cock Control?
Reasons Why Dominant Women Love Cock Control
1. Empowerment and Control: Many dominant women find significant empowerment in taking control over their partner’s pleasure. Cock control allows them to exercise authority, which can be both thrilling and liberating especially liing in a world that has traditionally sought our disempowerment. This dynamic often enhances their confidence and self-esteem, as they embrace their sexual agency.
2. Psychological Play: Engaging in orgasm control can heighten anticipation and tension, both for the dominant partner and the submissive. This psychological element adds depth to the experience, making it more fulfilling. According to a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine (2019), psychological arousal is intricately linked to physical arousal, allowing dominant women to experience a powerful blend of both.
3. Intimacy and Trust: Cock control necessitates a strong level of trust and communication between partners. A 2020 survey by FetLife found that among BDSM practitioners, a whopping 82% of women reported that practices involving power exchange, including cock control, helped deepen their emotional connection with their partners. This intimacy and connection can be profoundly satisfying for both parties involved.
4. Enhanced Pleasure: Many dominant women report that controlling a partner’s orgasm enhances their own pleasure. Engaging in practices like edging—where a submissive is brought close to orgasm and then denied—can amplify sensations and lead to more intense orgasms when they eventually occur. A survey from Newsweek (2021) indicated that 65% of women who practiced edging with their partners reported significant improvements in overall sexual satisfaction.
5. Exploring Kinks and Fantasies: Many women enjoy exploring different aspects of their sexuality through kink. By incorporating cock control into their sexual repertoire, they can fulfill personal fantasies of power and control, transforming traditional sexual dynamics. As reported by the Kink & Fetish Survey (2020), around 60% of women indicated a desire to explore dominant roles in their sexual practices.
Relevant Cock Control Statistics
- A 2019 survey from the Journal of Sexual Medicine showed that over 50% of women interested in BDSM reported having engaged in some form of orgasm control, highlighting its popularity among dominant women.
- According to the Kinsey Institute (2021) survey, around 40% of women expressed an interest in jerk-off instructions (JOI), appreciating the control and authority it allows them to exert during sexual play.
Cock control practices provide a thrilling intersection of empowerment, psychological intrigue, and intimacy for dominant women. As cultural acceptance of BDSM and kink continues to rise, more women are breaking free from the shackles of the patriarchy and exploring these dynamics, finding fulfillment and pleasure in their roles.
Closing Thoughts on Cock Control
I really want you to think about these statistics as you place yourself, all of you, in the hands of a dominant women. Not only will you be receiving all the stimulating benefits from placing your cock in the hands of a beautiful, confident women to play with as she desires, but you are also deepening and intensifying the sexual experience for her. And because men and women are socialized the way we are, a lot of women may not ever even bring up these types of fantasies to you without some type of encouragement from their partner. Fellas, a lot of women genuinely do not know that you crave to be made vulnerable, exposed, controlled, used for our pleasure, just like I have found that many men are not aware of the deep urge to dominate, overpower, and sexually subjugate that us women experience. I am just here to address the knowledge gap so we can all have better, more fulfilled, and most of all, even filthier sex. So gentlemen, empower us. Make us an offer. I think we will all be pleased with the results. Bye for now 😉
