As a Gemini Goddess, I have both a gentle and harsh side to my flavors of Domination. I wanted to focus this post on the sadistic side of cock teasing as it can be so delicious.
Sadistic Cock Teasing Consent
Of course, any cock teasing must be consensual but if you are embarking on the darker side of things, consent is crucial. So this post is written in the context that consent is given. Without a doubt, the sadistic side of cock teasing is a thrilling dimension of sex play. Remember for many bodies, the same endorphins that are released for pleasure, get released during “some” pain play. Experimenting to find those that do, can be a fun exploration for both the giver of pain play and the receiver of pain play.
This dynamic generally works well within a Dominant-submissive arena. Sadistic Cock teasing becomes a way to blend arousal, frustration and pain. On it’s basic level, this involves prolonged stimulation without release. Guys can be kept in a constant state of arousal for hours or even days, called edging. Make no mistake, a guy that does not cum for a period of days or weeks, will experience a great deal of discomfort and even pain in his balls. This is where the lovely term, “blue balls” comes from. lol
Dominant -Submissive Dynamic
The Dominant of course enjoys seeing the sub’s frustration and discomfort. Release will only be given when the Dominant is good and ready to give it. I have had callers that went months without release and enjoyed every moment of it. This becomes a very symbiotic ritual of sorts, the Domme enjoying keeping her sub frustrated in arousal and the sub enjoys being frustrated and aroused. I call this a win-win.
Let’s go deeper with sadistic cock tease play. There are numerous activities that can be done to mix pleasure with pain. CBT play like: hitting the balls with a shoe or paddle, tying up the balls with thin rope, using the electric wand, ball clamps with weights, and using icy hot muscle rub on a small area of the ballsack. (Trust me, don’t use more then the size of a pea). These are just a few of the many ways that the line between pleasure and pain can be explored.
Word play can also cause another form of pain, a psychological one, and one that can be just as intense. For some, this taps into feelings of humiliation or helplessness adding an extra layer of eroticism to the play experience. Of course trust and communication are imperative here, as both partners must be on the same page.
Sadistic Cock Teasing Calls?
Can sadistic cock teasing be experienced through a phone or Skype session here at LDW? Absolutely yes! A Domme that knows how to manipulate with words can definitely take you there. It doesn’t hurt either to have a few things handy for the session. For example, rope, a wooden spoon, etc. The key is finding that Domme that understands the art of the “Mind Fuck.” (Pointing to self here).
Are you looking to explore the sadistic side of cock teasing? I am available most evenings and available during the day by appointment. You can find me the following ways:
On Twiiter: GoddessSkylar34
Email: Skylar@Enchantrixempire.com
Skype: Sky Willow
My Blog: www.YourKinkAdvisor.com
I saw the words “sadistic” and “cockteasing” in the same sentence and rushed right over!
I’m glad I did, because your delicious post has outlined succinctly all the things I love about this form of play, and all the things cocktease subbies will love about it, too!
Especially with you!
Kudos, my dear!